When Adam and Eve sinned in the garden and God came to call them to account, it didn’t matter that Eve had sinned first. God said, “Adam, where are you?” (Gen. 3:9). That’s God’s word to the family today: Adam, husband, father, where are you? If something is not working right at [your home] and Jesus comes knocking on the door, He may have an issue with [your] wife, but the first thing He’s going to say when she opens the door is, “Is the man of the house home?” That’s the way it happened in the first marriage. That’s the way it will happen in our marriage. ~ John Piper, This Momentary Marriage
More on Marriage and Manhood
- The Masculine Mandate: God’s Calling to Men by Richard D. Phillips
- What’s the Difference?: Manhood and Womanhood Defined According to the Bible by John Piper
- Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood by Grudem & Piper
- Biblical Foundations for Manhood and Womanhood by Wayne Grudem
- Strengthening Your Marriage by Wayne A. Mack
- The Godly Home by Richard Baxter